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Parenting, . . . The Ultimate Escape room

2/26/2020

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​     Escape rooms are all the rage lately. Doesn't do it for me. The thought of not being able to figure out a task right away frustrates me to no end. (I'm a recovering perfectionist).  I started thinking about them the other day and started laughing as I thought about being a parent. Some days parenting can feel like an escape rooms.
     There are going to be times where you aren't sure what the right answer is. 
Your going to be confused. You may feel as if you are  wandering around in the dark with no flash light. It's a puzzle you need to figure out. On top of trying to figure it our, sometimes we have "helpful" tips given to us by strangers or friends on our parenting practices. They have been through the "escape room" before, here's what they did.
     While many mean well, as a young mother these were hard for me to take. I was so hard on myself already, that many of these "tips" came across as harsh and judgmental. I thought great, they can see I'm failing at this as well.
     Here are some things that I wish someone would have told me when my kids were younger. Number one being, every escape room, (child), is different. The rest are listed below.

God choose you to be your child's mother.
He believes in you, even when you don't.
Your reaction to a situation is your responsibility,
you are not responsible for others judgement of your abilities.

Your children are watching you, and how you handle situations.
They also look to you for comfort and safety,
that is your job.
It doesn't not matter if someone calls it coddling
​you may call nurturing, and that is ok. 
Try to remember . . .
Not to get defensive.
They probably mean well. 
And try not to get not get lost in all the "advice" given.
​   It's hard enough to be a good mama, please try to remember every child is different, and most of us are just trying to give them what they need. Be kind to yourself and others as we try to figure out our own escape rooms. We need to remind ourselves of this when we are tempted to judge someone else as well. Many blessing friends. You got this mama!
1 Comment
Mamaw
2/27/2020 11:50:34 am

Judgements hurt, then you realize at the end of the day, you will reap rewards, not anyone else. Do your best knowing you will make mistakes and forgive yourself ahead of time.

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    Devonne Ramer

    A mom trying to see the world through Gods eyes, while raising two crazy boys in the process. 

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    I, even I, have spoken;
                 yes

    I have called him. 
    I will bring him,
    and he will succeed in his mission.

                Isaiah 48:15 NIV
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    Proverbs 16:9 
    in his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.
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